Sharee faces the possibility that never had occurred to her of going to collage. Usually a girl with such a family problem and low financial means faces the reality that her future may not lie on a college degree job, instead she is usually deemed to work during high school and continue the same way after it forgetting the dream of getting a college education or even a better future. Yes, we see many who fight for their dreams and manage to go through and achieve that dream, but speaking on a general reality, that is not what, we know, happens to the majority of boys and girls who have the same type of Sharee's life. It doesn't matter what or who is helping you, you gotta hold on to your dreams and make things happen to yourself. Sharee took the chance Toby provided to her and she made it happen. She trusted her ability and she got her way to the college by showing the scout her value on the field hockey.
Daphne's decision to start dating Campbell, was for sure a hard one, I hope she understands all the difficulties she will encounter and all the barriers they will have to break through. From her first date, it didn't seem like, so I surely hope she have thought this through before letting it settle. She said herself that she felt sorry for him, like she felt the same one for Travis before and that ended up not well..in a way. The feeling of liking to help or want to make a change in his life can not be confused with a real feeling. That being said, she is definitely on her way for a lot of hard work that can be really worth having if her feelings are real and she is really in the road for her true love. On the other hand, as for a decision alone, Jorge even started to learn ASL for her, he did it on his own, not because she asked for it. He was always sweet to her and made no pressure on her and if even after that she still had only eyes for Campbell, which we already mentioned it on our last episode review, she must be really feeling stronger about Campbell than Jorge. In that, we congratulate her for finding her own feelings and letting it out.
Talking about breaking barriers on a relationship and finding her own feelings, a great turmoil ran on Bay's head during this episode. I really like the message the writers put on the episode through Bay's character decision NOT to have sex with her boyfriend. She allowed her mind speak up and was not into the moment for once in her life. It seems that she is really starting to know herself and not being the impulsive Bay we all know. Bay has been showing, since episode 1 of season 1, she does what she wants and no one would ever stop her, but mostly she is always impulsive and reacts a lot on the moment to discover new feelings and experience a new vision of her life. She is a character that shows she is mostly lost trying to find herself and what she really wants in her life. As many artists all over, the life experiences and over the edge feelings are what gives them the creativity or the motivation to create art. They always need to live the fullest and that doesn't mean they are doing the right thing all the time. Bay, for sure, has done millions of wrong things and just let herself go, but here we see her finding herself again. Her self steem, her own way, her own feelings and showing to the whole world that what she wants and what is more important than a "horny" boyfriend is the true way to go. All teenagers and all adults who have a sex life, should always put themselves first, their dreams and their desires. It doesn't matter if he is in the mood, it matters if you are. If he doesn't understand that, than maybe he is not the right guy for you because the right one will always understand and be there for you. Yes, Tank came to realized that, at least that shows him to have a better attitude about that, and maybe..just maybe, he could have been a special guy. I'm talking danger here, this is a Bay and Emmett related page, but I have to admit, Tank does have some sweetness we can't deny it. But since we are talking about Bay and Emmett related page, we need to mention, it was so sweet of Bay to help Emmett with his cheese (although she was trying to look cool) idea to frame Mandy's picture. We all could see Bay was not that happy to here about Emmett and Mandy again and she showed it even more when she found out that Mandy picture was a fake when she lied to Kathryn saying she was cool with Emmett's relationship, which it was clear that she was not. She was, however, very happy that Emmett knows her so much that she didn't have to tell him she bombed Buckner, he already knew it, she only had to admit it and he, as always would be on her side for any kind of trouble she got herself into.
As for Nikki and Toby, it bothered me a lot that they got married on a hurry with no need to, than after all was said and done Nikki comes back to tell him she is leaving to Africa and if he doesn't go with her than it is over. What kind of relationship is that? Taken from a real commitment that Nikki as a christian should know better, a marriage must be more important than your "call". This decision has to be talked about, a married couple should discuss and get to a common ground where it would work for both, make arrangements, maybe he could go for a month to try, or maybe she could see with her church if there was something local to do before she would be transfer and in the mean time she would organizes things with Toby, or anything that could work around it, not just arrive from a 6 month apart and throw on his face she is leaving. Married couple should not make decisions alone, she is not alone anymore, she has to include him in her life and make the effort to work it out. Marriage is hard, it is a commitment, if she cannot commit, they should got married. Now, people would say that they want different things, but the way I see, they are actually doing the same thing. They are both helping the less fortunate. Granted, Nikki is working in very poor countries while Toby is at home, but in their own ways they are helping the kids to have a better future, to get an education. Even if Nikki is teaching a lot of them and Toby is mostly helping just one, as God would say, it doesn't matter how quantity but the quality of you work. One soul is all that takes to make you a fisher of men. (OK, I'm not that good on religious stuff, but it is more or less around these lines). That being said, both wants the same thing, all they need is to figure out how and where they can do that together.
Lastly, about the Buckner vs Carlton game, I was relieved that Carlton lost. Not that I didn't like the team, but let's talk about reality here, a all winner team against a 2 month (all lost scores) team, there was no way Carlton could win. It was different with the basketball tournament, back then, they were practicing for years and their team was already in place even before John came into place to make it better, but a just formed team like the Hockey Field one could not beat a well trained one. Anyway..GO CARLTON!! Best thing on that was, even though John made a stupid inspirational speech, he did deliver the best line of the episode that also summarizes the message of this episode very well: "No victory is too small". Dream, have your goal, fight for it and even little by little you can accomplish a great victory, in school, at work, in a relationship, in marriage..in life!
Here it the promo for episode 11 (next monday)
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